I will not be shouted down.

Is stupid to suggest someone is being controlled by someone when three of you couldn’t control them at all. Next claim… shall we are dress them one by one? did I mention that in 30 years I am the only one in this entire situation who has worked the entire time often two jobs. None of you work, and the amusing thing is, you completely forgot I did. And now you’re scrambling. Because you actually forgot I worked

You’ve actually given no consideration to the amount of money that I have earned for my family. While you spend the money others earned for you and do nothing. I think you’re scum. My father would’ve called you Gross. And gross is what you are. You are in danger other peoples children because you don’t want to have to go to treatment yourselves when you need it. You lie to the courts and withhold information so they will not force you to get the treatment you need. You rely on lying. When people catch you at what you’re doing you tell them don’t tell. You’re middle names are, “don’t tell“.

Did I mention I was a journalist’daughter? Guess I what we do? We tell. We’re also kind of adept at understanding what details and things can go in to an article for example, in the newspaper. It’s kind of a big deal. I mean if it were to go in the news either a broadcaster in the column it could be a disaster. Coming from a newspaper family I know a bit about this. If you ever attack me for not being conscientious about information, I will sue you for outright lying. I will connect you to the person you were lying for. And it will backfire when I sue them for constant harassment.

I have asked for one thing. Over and over and over. Jay has written them to ask that they leave me alone and quit blaming me. they have been unable to do this and simply say as long as they care about the members of my family they will come and go from my home as they please.

My last conversation with Susan. Not only is she the most sensitive subject having been the center of an abuse issue, but she enjoyed coming to my home to stare me down at my dining room table and tell me with her written notes that I was neglectful. Look on her face when I reminded her. I had returned from being at the mayo clinic for almost a month. She had no questions about my health the express plenty about her brother who should leave me. She didn’t care. Most of my hair had fallen out and I was wearing a wig. When this was mentioned to her, she smirked and said yeah, I was wondering what was up with your hair . But when I reminded her I work full-time and can’t do it all while being at Mayo full-time, she looked dumbfounded, as though she were processing what Work was. Give me a break.

Watching her realize this was amusing as she quickly folded and removed the writing she had in front of her from the table. I asked to see it, and she stated, “no, these are for my own thoughts“. In other words, I am ashamed of myself that I won’t be if I keep you from knowing. Because that’s all I need to feel good about myself. Just as long as no one knows.

And you would do this and you would do that. But what would you do if a family attacked your career when they don’t work while saying they’re worried you’re spending someone else’s money that you’re not because you have your own? And what would you do if they went after you. If year, after year, after year, they insisted on giving you no privacy And critiquing you with notes the whole time. This will not be tolerated anymore. I don’t give a damn if it’s just me, saying it, I own that house, too, and I matter. Whether Jay agrees doesn’t matter I matter to. And I will be a big pain in your ass from now on. Because I know what real work is. Journalist also care and look up stuff. Court documents, for example, and they already have. And this can go nuclear if you want.

What it is not going to be? Is Anne setting off an entire group in my profession against me. Not with reckless abandon. They will each be held accountable. In writing. In time.

If you care about your brother, Ann, Susan, or your son, Robin, why are you sabotaging me financially? If you care about his money, that makes even less sense doesn’t it? When my kids are in college and you’re complaining, he’s paying for it, but you’re sabotaging my career, that kind of reveals your lying.

The bottom line is, I have a 30 year marriage. All of yours failed. The bottom line is, I’m nothing like you. I represent everything you fear. Because I represent the truth , and putting it out there is true. If you were a member of a community attacking another person, you deserve to be written up, particularly when you filed a lawsuit. You were entitled. This is what entitlement is. And you are sad people. You’re envious. And constantly matches her envy of my home. She never had a successful career. She sees mine. She never looked pretty. She has always been overweight. She saw my pictures and called me a whore. Enough. The rest of it is even worse. Constant comments about what’s normal and what’s not, even that I should not have a decision in my own children’s lives, because I’m a therapist, which made me somehow biased. Not to be included in decisions about my own children.

Since this is on Yahoo, I am and other forms of written communication. This is no problem for me. I would say it’s a problem for them though. I do everything in writing. Anyone who knows me? Well knows I do not talk on the telephone. And I hanging out with you people either. So you can be damn straight if you communicate with me, I learned from my father to always put it in writing.

Anne began a “secret clue box” to our child. Without our knowledge or permission. Our child was 12. She asked for to hide it. Does this sound familiar? Enmeshed. I refuse. .

Finally, when a persons only defense is that it’s family matters, and shouldn’t be shared, when I am clearly not part of the family, it sounds like an admission. So to accept that is to accept all of this. And I’m about done with you people. That’ll do pigs. Att’ll do.